Your Bestfriend is "Not" your Fathers Servant.

Well, this might look like a statement bashing this relationship but No. This comes from a personal experience and i think i am not the only one who has been through this.

The essence of friendship is beautiful there is so much to cherish about the outcomes, adventures and experiences. But like not every thing that glitters is Gold Similarly not every one around you is your friend.

Well if i tell you about my experience what happened was that i miss this girl in my bachelors and we became quite fond of each other soon we referred each other as best friend. I used to help her with course works assignments as she was not an arts person, i used todeal with her panic attacks, mental breakdowns, emotional let downs and what not. I used to help her in exams, bring her home as she was unwell.

All was good untill she started to believe that the Earth revolves around her and not the sun. I started to feel that i am nothing but just someone she needs. I was thr when she needed a shoulder to cry on and in my hard times she was no where. I was thr when she needed help and for me she was no where. She used to mock me down on my complexion and face but if ever joke even she used to mind it

If i dont pick her call or i am busy she used to fight for hours but if she does that then cmon bro she was busy, if i say no to something she used to pissed.it took me a long time to realize that i am nothing but just a way to get her stuff done. She used to think that if says that should be done no matter what. I was never her friend but a hired friend for help. Until this i was letting things go.

I started to back off when her negativity started to spoil my daily life, when i was giving my 100% and she wasnt willing to do anything. There came a point i was Done, i ended things up And i am not even sorry for this.

The point is that "kisi k liye itna mat karo, ke apne aap ko kho do". One should maintain the border line difference between "Doing for you" and "Dying for you". Doing stuff or not doing is not the issue, the issue is that one can never be available all the time to worship you, you have to put yourself in thr shoes you have to understand their problems their lives. We as mature adults should let things go, sometimes one cant do something and its absolutely ok. They dont want to talk to you because you said no is their problem notyours.

The fact that one is doing like crazy and going heads over heels and you are just being mean and thinking of what they didnt do for you is your level of insanity. One shouldn't feel sorry for letting such people leave from your circle because they do nothing except causing constant pain in your life. Be sensible enough to leave a table where respect is no longer served. You are no ones personal servant. You have your own life. Friendship is beautiful, Cherrish it before you chase it.

Love 💕